marriage in KIDS age....trend?

Assalam....
saye nak kahwen....kahwin...kawen...yeay!!!!
*one day aminnnn...when im matured enough and HE met me to be his OWN wife.... aminnn*
happy ye kawen....
mestilah...
kahwin = mengikat satu tali yang kukuh atas nama ALLAH SWT dlm pjalanan utk mjdi suami isteri yang sah... *SAH!! xsbr nk dgr~*
bak kate ustazah... kahwin, leyh wat MCM2 ngan suami....
sweeeeeet!! *nak men dukung3!! tapi awak la dukung kitee :D*
=..='

the MAIN thing here....
KIDS AGE.... responsible enough???
seriously?? really??
or just FOLLOWING new TREND nowadaysss???

hummm....
FOR MY OPINION~
THEY SHOULD NOT!!
*unless there is a MUST reason for married based on rules in ISLAM*
for me.... its damn too early...
really....seriously...its toooo early...
for me... with our SICKO environment *watch/read news???* ...
those who want to be married.... REALLY3 want to further their next relationship status...
they must be COUNSELLED by not with their parents! but with someone like ustaz/ustazah~
why???
so they know.... ITS REALLY HARD TO BE HUSBAND AND WIFE....
eventhough its a SWEET THINGS THAT COME ONCE's IN A LIFETIME!!
THE COUNSELLING session should tell them the knowledge in marriage, divorced, family, ibadah, and things that relates enough with their life sooner....
WHY counsell??
counsell its more to give an advice, guide them (the brides to be)...
and the COUNSELOR should DEEP-KNOWLEDGE-IN-THIS-TOPIC....
why they need it??
avoid DIVORCED!! they should know once they get married.... if there is obstacle came...firstly!!!
they must save their marriage no matter what....ALLAH hate DIVORCING!!
*unless divorced with acceptable reason...like husband beats his wife, cant afford his wife (no money),dayus-nusyuz,ect even they go COUNSELLING cant be kind likethey met each otherrr at first time...cehh ayatt*
seriously...right???
this counsel is more likely to TAARUF.... but different method/objective....
IF THE BRIDES TO BE UNDERSTAND THEIR RISK AND WILL TAKE THEIR RISK TOGETHER, then they can marry...


peace....marry-kawin-hunli~
mayALLAHgaveUSaSOLEH&KINDsoulmateONEDAY
aminnnnn.....
:D